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Have you ever got cheated by anyone?

She thought they were the happiest couple on the earth. They way Cavill held her,looked at her, everything seemed to be like out of fairytale for Liza.

But then,when she realised that she was getting cheated, she couldn’t bear that pain. She felt like tearing herself apart. She thought it was her fault.

Often in this situation we all think it the same way. Even if we are the victims, we criticize ourself saying.

“Wasn’t I good enough?”
“What could I have done differently?”
“What is it that wasn’t in me, that other person had?”
“What could I have possibly changed?”

The fact is when they cheat you, they reflect so much more of themselves and not of you.

Understand that them cheating is because of their insecurity. When they feel they don’t deserve you.

Don’t let this step up your insecurity.

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away diamonds for the rock. And cheating can be really subtle. Cheating doesn’t have to be meeting,talking, or getting into a physical with someone else. The moment you delete a message or call log of someone from your mobile,to hide them from your partner, or saving contacts on other name, doing things in secret…

You have already started!!! You have planted the seeds for it.

Cheaters don’t think cheating is wrong until they get cheated on. That’s how the cycle of Karma works. What goes around will come around.

People don’t cheat because they don’t respect the other person, they cheat because they don’t respect themselves. People cheat because they are coward and they know what they are doing is wrong.
They don’t have the courage to state and stand for what they want.

Wikipedia defines cheating as “The receiving of a reward for ability or finding an easy way out of an unpleasant situation by dishonest means.”
People who cheat doesn’t have the courage to deal with the problems that may rise due to their honesty.

Telling the truth and making someone cry is better than telling lie and making them smile. A single lie that you tell might stir up the life of another person. If you stay honest, like karma it will come back to you eventually. People expect honesty over perfection and sugar coated lies all the time.

Be honest than impressive

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